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Last updated: 2025-06-18

Telling my boss i’m quitting for health reasons, no details

Honestly, this situation sucks. I’m getting sicker every week and there’s no way I can keep up with work, but I don’t want to go into the gory details...

Tired of visiting my partner's family, skipping brother's birthday

I swear, if I have to sit through another one of my boyfriend's family's forced, fake-ass gatherings, I'm going to lose it. His idiot brother is turni...

How would women react if their partner stole their underwear

If I found out my boyfriend was stealing my underwear, I'd honestly be creeped out as hell. Like, it's not just some joke or harmless thing—it's strai...

Family pissed after my unannounced trip, mom giving silent treatment

I took off for a quick trip with some friends last weekend, didn’t tell my folks because honestly, I’m sick of telling them every little thing I do. I...

Mom guilt-tripping me for moving far away, need help

I moved 800 miles away from my hometown for a job and some damn peace of mind, but my mom just won’t let it go. Every call turns into her whining abou...

Need help dealing with a friend who read my journal

I just found out my so-called best friend went through my stuff and read my private journal. I’m pissed and honestly feel betrayed. She acted all weir...

Sister wants me to be her live-in nanny, what do I say?

So my older sister just dropped a bomb on me—she wants me to basically move into her house and be a full-time live-in nanny for her two kids. I’m 24, ...

Future mother-in-law invites randoms to our wedding

My fiancé and I spent months planning our wedding, only to find out that his mother took it upon herself to invite a bunch of people we barely know. I...

Cutting off toxic siblings for my own mental health

Anyone else sick of hearing “but they’re family, you have to love them” when your brother or sister is a straight-up asshole? My older sister’s been n...

Struggling with self-respect after being a doormat in my relationship

I’m honestly sick of feeling like a complete loser in my own relationship. My girlfriend just walks all over me—she gets pissed about something stupid...

Boyfriend wants to date others because i won’t do anal sex

My boyfriend told me last night that if I don’t start giving him anal sex, he’ll have to see other girls because “all guys need it.” He’s been nagging...

Roommate keeps forcing religion on me and judging my drinking

I’m honestly at my wits’ end with this guy. Every time I crack open a beer after work or go out with friends, my roommate acts like I’m some kind of d...

Setting boundaries after a friend ruined christmas

I need some straight-up advice. My so-called friend basically bulldozed over my boundaries this Christmas, and now I’m pissed and don’t know what to d...

Why do people want aftercare after a hookup?

I don’t get why aftercare is even a thing after a casual hookup. Isn’t the whole point of a hookup to have some fun, get off, and then go your separat...

Co-worker wants me in a threesome with her boyfriend

I can’t believe I’m even asking this, but my co-worker (let’s call her Jess) just straight up asked if I wanted to have a threesome with her and her b...

Found out my parents are swingers, don't know how to feel

So last night I accidentally saw a text pop up on my mom’s phone about a “swingers party” this weekend, and I honestly feel like my brain’s been fried...

Parents told family about my therapy and my fetish

I’m pissed. My mom and dad went behind my back and told my aunt and uncle about me being in therapy, and even worse, about a fetish I told them in con...

Boyfriend keeps drinking and driving, am i crazy for leaving?

If your boyfriend is getting behind the wheel drunk, he's a selfish piece of shit. My ex used to do this every damn weekend, thinking he was invincibl...

Roommate mad after i binged and puked his food, even though i replaced it

So last night I went on a bit of a bender — stress, booze, whatever. Ended up raiding the fridge and wolfing down my roommate’s leftovers. Ate his ent...

Frustrated with lazy family after moving, any real advice?

I moved across the damn country five years ago to be closer to my family, thinking it’d be some kind of support system. Instead, I’m surrounded by a b...

Father wants to move in after years of being a shitty dad

So here’s the deal—I’m 22, living with my younger brother (he’s 18), and out of nowhere our dad, who honestly was never around and when he was, just m...

How do you deal with girlfriend criticism without losing it?

My girlfriend keeps picking at everything I do, and it's honestly starting to grind me down. She nags me about little crap like leaving socks on the f...

Is she too critical or am i just being a wimp?

My girlfriend picks at every damn thing I do. If I forget to put the toilet lid down, she sighs and gives me this lecture about “respect.” I leave a d...

Feeling crushed by partner’s anxiety, need real talk advice

My girlfriend’s anxiety is straight-up killing me. She freaks out about literally everything—her job, my exes, what the cat is thinking, shit that hap...

Boyfriend is lazy, maybe depressed, and i feel ignored

Honestly, I’m about ready to lose it. My boyfriend and I have been together six months, and at first he was sweet and attentive. Now he just lies arou...

Boyfriend's drinking ruining our relationship and my sanity

My boyfriend can’t go a damn weekend without getting hammered. It was fun and wild at first, but now it’s just pathetic. He drinks until he’s slurring...

Boyfriend pushed me into sex stuff i didn’t want

Last night my boyfriend kept pushing me to do things I’ve already told him I’m not comfortable with. It started with him getting handsy on the couch, ...

Rejected a guy, ghosted him, now moms are forcing us to talk

So, here's my crap situation: I told this guy from my class that I'm not interested, and he just kept acting all clingy and weird, so I started ignori...

Thinking about quitting babysitting for my sister

I’m honestly at my breaking point with my sister dumping her kids on me all the time. She keeps acting like it’s a “favor” but let’s be real, it’s fre...

Thinking about dumping my boyfriend because of his gambling problem

Four years of my life wasted on a guy who'd rather bet his money away than actually build something real with me. I’m so sick of the lies, the begging...

Supporting a needy friend who hates our group

I’m just tired of babysitting this one girl in our friend group who flips out every time she feels left out or not “special” enough. She’s always bit...

Boyfriend jerked off in my underwear as a prank

So I found out my boyfriend thought it would be "hilarious" to jerk off and finish in my underwear drawer, right on my panties, and then put them back...

Boyfriend's rude behavior is ruining my relationships

My boyfriend acts like a total asshole to my family and friends and honestly, I’m getting sick of it. He can’t go to a dinner at my mom’s without maki...

Wife gets wasted and embarrasses herself, need advice

I'm honestly at my wit's end. My wife loves her wine and, to be blunt, she gets absolutely trashed at every social gathering. We're talking slurred sp...

How do i deal with my selfish boyfriend?

I’m honestly at my breaking point. My boyfriend is so damn selfish and thoughtless, it’s making me question if I’m just wasting my time. He never thin...

Stuck between loyalty and self-respect in a toxic relationship

I’m tired of being the “good guy” in this mess. I promised my girlfriend I’d stick around no matter what, but lately, it feels like I’m just letting h...

Boyfriend keeps pushing me to go to the gym, what do i do?

I’m so sick of my boyfriend acting like my body is some kind of project he needs to fix. For the past month, he keeps nagging me to go to the gym with...

Coping when your partner loses it from sensory overload

My girlfriend loses her shit every time we go somewhere crowded or loud—it’s honestly exhausting. We’ll be in a store, and suddenly she’s all tense an...

Signs of healthy vs toxic relationship dynamics

If your partner makes you feel like crap most days, that’s toxic. If you’re scared to say what’s on your mind because you know they’ll blow up, that’s...

Should we take care of my fiancé's autistic brother?

Honestly, I don’t see why my life should have to revolve around my fiancé’s autistic brother. He’s not my responsibility, and I didn’t sign up for thi...

How to deal with an annoying neighbor and her bratty kids

My neighbor is driving me insane. She’s always in my business, and her kids scream like dying animals all day, running through my yard like it’s their...

How to decide on giving someone a second chance

If someone screws you over, honestly, most advice out there is way too soft. People say “forgive and forget” like it’s some magic cure, but that’s not...

Should i completely cut off my toxic sibling?

I’m so damn sick of people telling me “family is family” like it’s some magic excuse for putting up with absolute crap. My brother has been a leech my...

How to end a friendship without being a total jerk

Honestly, ending a friendship is way harder than dumping someone you’re dating. At least with dating, people expect breakups. But when you try to cut ...

Signs a friend is obsessed with you in a creepy way

I'm starting to think one of my friends has crossed into stalker territory. Like, it’s not just “I care about you” – it’s full-on, “I need to know whe...

I'm turned on by bad boys, but is this going too far?

I need some honest feedback here because my brain is spinning. I’m a 38-year-old single woman, and I’ve always had a bit of a thing for “bad boys.” I ...

Rude requests from strangers or am i overreacting

When someone you barely know orders you around like you're their personal assistant, it’s hard not to take it personally and feel totally disrespected...

My dad ignores my boundaries

When I asked him not to comment on my weight, he laughed. Then he did it again the next week like it was nothing.

When a friend breaks your trust and doesn't see the problem

I grew up in a small rural town, and let’s just say — it wasn’t always easy. There was a lot of bullying, a lot of drama, and I often felt like an out...

How do i handle a nosy friend after a breakup?

My relationship recently ended, and one of my friends knows about it. However, I don’t really want to talk to her about it. She has a habit of overana...

Should i distance myself from this woman i met on vacation?

I met a woman on vacation, and we instantly clicked. We were both traveling alone, and since then, we’ve stayed in touch—mostly chatting. She’s sarcas...

Is it okay to ask about a struggling marriage in the family?

For a few years now, I’ve watched a marriage in my in-laws’ family slowly unravel. The dynamic seems to have more negativity than positivity, and I ca...

Is it wrong not to date someone who’s bisexual?

I’m a 28-year-old lesbian, and I’ve recently been navigating the dating scene. I met a wonderful woman—beautiful, kind, and easy to connect with. We w...

How do i handle coworkers obsessed with conspiracy theories?

I have a co-worker called "Julia”, who’s constantly talking about conspiracy theories. Well, now my boss has assigned me to a team with her and anothe...