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Last updated: 2025-06-18

Boyfriend wants to smell my underwear but expects me to be fresh

So my boyfriend keeps asking to smell my used underwear. He gets off on it and doesn’t even try to hide it anymore. I’m honestly torn. Guys are always...

Girlfriend not into ffm threesome, am i being selfish?

I keep thinking about having a threesome with my girlfriend and another girl, but every time I bring it up she gets weird and shuts down. Honestly, i...

How to set boundaries with insecure girlfriend

My girlfriend’s insecurities are honestly starting to drive me nuts. She blows up my phone if I don’t reply fast enough, gets pissed when I hang out w...

Nannying a 13-year-old boy acting weird – is it just puberty?

So I’ve been nannying for this 13-year-old kid for a few months now, and honestly, I’m starting to wonder if I’m dealing with normal teenage crap or i...

Mom keeps inviting my ex to family holidays, need advice

I swear my mom has lost her damn mind. Every single holiday, she invites my ex over like nothing ever happened. We split up almost two years ago, and ...

Boyfriend's sexual kinks make me uncomfortable – what should i do?

My boyfriend keeps bringing up stuff in bed that honestly just turns my stomach, but I feel like I can’t say anything without looking like a prude or ...

Best friend turns aggressive and tells offensive jokes when drunk

Every time my best friend gets wasted, he turns into a complete asshole. It starts with him cracking these edgy, borderline racist or sexist jokes, an...

Wife wants me to be rough and degrading in bed, advice?

So I’m in a weird spot. My wife of six years just told me she gets off on being treated like crap during sex. Like, not just rougher, but full-on degr...

Struggling with my husband's fetish, need real advice

I feel like I'm losing my mind over this. My husband told me about his foot fetish a few months ago, and honestly, I can't stand it. He keeps asking m...

Do i have to tell hr if i bang a coworker?

I hooked up with a coworker after a happy hour. It just sort of happened and now things are a bit weird at work. I’m not even sure I want to see this ...

Co-worker wants me in a threesome with her boyfriend

I can’t believe I’m even asking this, but my co-worker (let’s call her Jess) just straight up asked if I wanted to have a threesome with her and her b...

Workplace romance with younger coworker, need brutal advice

I’m messing around with a girl at work, she’s about 10 years younger than me (I’m 34, she’s 24), and I’m losing sleep over whether I’m screwing up my ...

Casual sex with coworker: how to keep shit from hitting the fan

Alright, so I know this is probably a bad idea and everyone says “don’t shit where you eat,” but honestly the sexual tension with this chick at work i...

Slept with younger co-worker, now it’s awkward at work

Screwed up big time and honestly don’t know what to do. I’m 30F, he’s 21M. We’ve been working together for a few months, harmless flirting at first, t...

Sister-in-law exploiting my struggles to control my partner

My partner’s sister is turning my personal issues into some kind of weapon against me. Every time I have a bad day or something’s off with my mental ...

Supporting girlfriend with emotional baggage after 4 years

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for four years now, and honestly, most of it’s been good, but her past is starting to mess with us. She’s got all this ...

Mental and emotional impact of face slapping during sex

Face slapping during sex is one of those things people either love, hate, or secretly wonder about. I’ve tried it a few times with my girlfriend, and ...

Dealing with jealousy and confusion after intense mmf threesome

I had my first MMF threesome last weekend with my girlfriend and this dude she’s known for a while. It was wild, honestly, but now I can’t stop repla...

Fiancé’s mom wants to move in—what the actual hell do i do?

So my fiancé dropped this crap on me last night—his mom wants to move into our tiny-ass apartment. We barely have enough room for our own crap, and no...

How to limit time with clingy girlfriend when life gets rough

Seriously losing my mind here. My girlfriend is always on my case, texting non-stop, wanting to call every damn night—even when I tell her I’m buried ...

Found out my parents are swingers, don't know how to feel

So last night I accidentally saw a text pop up on my mom’s phone about a “swingers party” this weekend, and I honestly feel like my brain’s been fried...

Dealing with weird emotions after my first sex party

Went to a sex party with my boyfriend last weekend. We’d talked about it for weeks, maybe months, watched some porn together, and it all sounded fun, ...

Advice on adding a third person after a threesome

Last weekend my girlfriend and I had our first threesome with another girl. It was actually fun and didn’t feel as awkward as I thought it would. The ...

How do i organize an orgy with friends without it getting weird

So me and a few buddies (and their girlfriends, some single folks too) have been joking about doing an orgy “one day,” but now it’s kinda getting real...

Is a 15 year age gap in dating really a problem?

Honestly, I’ve always seen people freak out about big age gaps in relationships, but I just don’t get it. If two adults are into each other, why the h...

Seeking advice for dating a muslim woman respectfully

I’m seeing this Muslim girl, and honestly, I have no clue what I’m doing half the time. She’s cool, pretty, and funny, but I can’t tell what’s off-lim...

Boyfriend wants hijab and abaya in bed, i feel weird

My boyfriend keeps asking me to wear a hijab and abaya when we have sex, and honestly, I feel totally weirded out by it. I'm not even Muslim, and I ha...

Parents told family about my therapy and my fetish

I’m pissed. My mom and dad went behind my back and told my aunt and uncle about me being in therapy, and even worse, about a fetish I told them in con...

Struggling with my partner's kinks and need real advice

Honestly, I’m at a bit of a loss here. My girlfriend is into some pretty weird shit in the bedroom—stuff I never even thought about before we got toge...

Predator-prey role play tips for married couples

My wife and I have been talking about spicing things up, and she brought up predator-prey role play. Honestly, I’ve never done anything like this befo...

Boyfriend's grooming habits make me question his respect for consent

Recently, I’ve noticed my boyfriend acts weird about my boundaries and it’s pissing me off. Like, he’s always pushing for more—even when I say no. He’...

Friend keeps saying he wants to take my virginity—is this weird?

My buddy (let’s call him Dan) has been dropping comments for months now about wanting to be the one to “take my virginity.” At first, I thought he was...

Tired of being my girlfriend’s personal taxi after her accident

Honestly, I’m about to lose it. My girlfriend wrecked her car a couple months ago (her fault, by the way, texting while driving like an idiot). Ever s...

Boyfriend keeps drinking and driving, am i crazy for leaving?

If your boyfriend is getting behind the wheel drunk, he's a selfish piece of shit. My ex used to do this every damn weekend, thinking he was invincibl...

How do you shut down debates without looking like an ass?

I’ve got this guy in my life who just won't shut up about every damn thing. Politics, religion, parenting, you name it, he wants to “debate” it. It’s ...

2-year-old ignores instructions, does she understand?

My 2-year-old daughter flat-out ignores me like I’m talking to a wall. I’ll tell her “don’t touch the TV” or “pick up your toys,” and she stares right...

Roommate mad after i binged and puked his food, even though i replaced it

So last night I went on a bit of a bender — stress, booze, whatever. Ended up raiding the fridge and wolfing down my roommate’s leftovers. Ate his ent...

How do i tell my friend not to stay at my house this weekend?

So here’s the damn situation. My friend (let’s call him Jake) just assumes he can crash at my place while me and my girlfriend are away this weekend. ...

Frustrated with lazy family after moving, any real advice?

I moved across the damn country five years ago to be closer to my family, thinking it’d be some kind of support system. Instead, I’m surrounded by a b...

Father wants to move in after years of being a shitty dad

So here’s the deal—I’m 22, living with my younger brother (he’s 18), and out of nowhere our dad, who honestly was never around and when he was, just m...

How do you deal with girlfriend criticism without losing it?

My girlfriend keeps picking at everything I do, and it's honestly starting to grind me down. She nags me about little crap like leaving socks on the f...

Is she too critical or am i just being a wimp?

My girlfriend picks at every damn thing I do. If I forget to put the toilet lid down, she sighs and gives me this lecture about “respect.” I leave a d...

One-year-old only contact naps, need real sleep training advice

I’m seriously losing my mind here. My one-year-old will only nap if I’m holding her, and honestly, I feel like a hostage in my own freaking house. I c...

Rebuilding trust in a relationship without losing yourself

Every time I try to fix things with my girlfriend after her cheating, I feel like I’m losing a bit of myself. She wants to check my phone, know where ...

So won't do chores, gave ultimatum, now things are better

I was honestly sick of coming home to a pigsty thanks to my boyfriend just ignoring chores. Dishes stacked up, his dirty underwear everywhere, bathroo...

Telling my boyfriend about trauma & can't say no to sex

Every time my boyfriend wants to have sex, I feel like I have to say yes just to keep him happy and avoid drama, even though sometimes I really don’t ...

Feeling crushed by partner’s anxiety, need real talk advice

My girlfriend’s anxiety is straight-up killing me. She freaks out about literally everything—her job, my exes, what the cat is thinking, shit that hap...

Balancing alone time and couple time in one apartment

Living with my girlfriend for over a year now, and honestly, sometimes it’s a f***ing struggle to get space for myself. I love her, but damn, I miss j...

How to help partner with relationship anxiety and what to say

My girlfriend is always worrying that I’m going to leave her or that I’ll cheat, even though I’ve never given her a reason to think that. She’s been i...

Partner’s relationship anxiety: should i stay or just leave?

I’ve been dating this girl for over a year and I swear, her anxiety about our relationship is driving me up the wall. She’s always stressing about if ...

Boyfriend is lazy, maybe depressed, and i feel ignored

Honestly, I’m about ready to lose it. My boyfriend and I have been together six months, and at first he was sweet and attentive. Now he just lies arou...

Boyfriend's drinking getting out of hand after 9 months

My boyfriend and I have been together for about nine months, and lately, his drinking is starting to piss me off. When we first met, I thought he just...

Boyfriend's drinking ruining our relationship and my sanity

My boyfriend can’t go a damn weekend without getting hammered. It was fun and wild at first, but now it’s just pathetic. He drinks until he’s slurring...

Girlfriend drinks too much, don’t know how to deal with it

My girlfriend’s drinking is getting out of hand and I’m starting to think I can’t put up with it anymore. She’s always been a social drinker but latel...

Girlfriend too intense in bed, how do i handle it?

My girlfriend is hot as hell, but sometimes in bed she goes totally overboard and it's starting to mess with my head. Like, she scratches, bites, pull...

How to be chill parents without being walked all over?

So I’m trying not to be those uptight parents who flip out over every little thing, but I also don’t want my kids to treat me like some pushover. I se...

Boyfriend touches me too much and it creeps me out

I’m honestly at my wit’s end. My boyfriend is always touching me, like literally every chance he gets—hand on my thigh, stroking my back, grabbing my ...

Girlfriend always touching other guys, normal or red flag?

Okay, is it just me or does it seem weird when your girlfriend is always touching other dudes? I’m not talking about a tap on the shoulder or a quick ...

Boyfriend acts clingy and touchy when i talk to other guys

Every damn time I talk to a guy, even if it’s just about stupid shit like homework or a movie, my boyfriend suddenly needs to put his arm around me, t...

Girlfriend wants more physical affection than i can handle

My girlfriend is super touchy-feely, always wanting to hold hands, cuddle, sit practically on top of me on the couch, and it’s honestly starting to pi...

Girlfriend gets too touchy with other guys, what do i do?

Every time we go out, my girlfriend acts way too friendly with other dudes. She hugs them, touches their arms, and laughs way too hard at their crappy...

Why do i stop my girlfriend from meeting my friends

I know it sounds controlling or whatever, but honestly, I don’t let my girlfriend hang out with my friends for a reason. My friends are idiots, they m...

Boyfriend pushed me into sex stuff i didn’t want

Last night my boyfriend kept pushing me to do things I’ve already told him I’m not comfortable with. It started with him getting handsy on the couch, ...

Rejected a guy, ghosted him, now moms are forcing us to talk

So, here's my crap situation: I told this guy from my class that I'm not interested, and he just kept acting all clingy and weird, so I started ignori...

Best friend crossed boundaries with unwanted physical contact

So my so-called “best friend” tried to get handsy with me the other night, and honestly it’s pissed me off more than anything. We’ve been tight for ye...

Friends draining my wallet and ruining other friendships

Every time I hang out with this group, they expect me to pay for shit. Doesn’t matter if we’re grabbing food, drinking, or going out, they’re always “...

Tired of paying for my lazy husband's bills, advice?

I’m honestly at my breaking point here. For years I’ve been the one with my shit together, paying our rent, covering his credit card debt, and even ba...

Girlfriend's family keeps begging for money, ruining my life

My girlfriend’s family is bleeding us dry and I’m freaking sick of it. Every month it’s a new sob story—her mom “needs help” with rent, her brother “l...

How to tell my sister i can't give her money anymore

My sister’s been hitting me up for cash for years. I’m not rich, I’m not some f***ing ATM, but every time she’s short on rent or wants to go on anothe...

Dad always hits me up for money with guilt trips

I’m sick of being my dad’s personal ATM. He’s constantly coming at me with these pathetic sob stories or half-assed “business ideas” that he swears w...

How to help my broke boyfriend without screwing myself

So my boyfriend lost his job a couple months ago and he’s been broke ever since. I care about him, but I’m not some rich sugar mama. He acts like it’s...

Spouse’s dad asking for money after years of silence

I’m losing my mind. My wife’s dad basically ignored us for like a decade, never called, never showed up for anything, just did his own thing. Out of n...

How do i support my wife’s trauma without losing myself?

My wife has been through some serious shit in her past, things I won’t spill here out of respect, but let’s just say it’s ugly. She’s got trauma, and ...

Uncomfortable with partner offering money for house purchase

My girlfriend keeps pushing to “help” me buy a house, and it’s making me want to puke. She comes from money, her parents give her whatever, and she ac...

Thinking about quitting babysitting for my sister

I’m honestly at my breaking point with my sister dumping her kids on me all the time. She keeps acting like it’s a “favor” but let’s be real, it’s fre...

Dealing with sister-in-law’s reckless teens at family events

I’m honestly at my wit’s end with my sister-in-law’s kids. Every time there’s a family gathering, her two spoiled teenagers act like complete idiots—s...

How to deal with rude in-laws and keep them away

I’m honestly at the end of my rope with my husband’s family. Every time they come over, they act like our house is their damn property. His mom critic...

Boomer grandparents are useless, didn’t raise us, why try now?

Is anyone else sick of these boomer grandparents who act like they know everything about raising kids, when honestly, they barely raised us? My mom an...

Is it okay to straight up ask a stranger for sex in public?

Honestly, I see people getting all weird about this, but let's be real for a second. If some dude or chick just walks up and asks for sex, even if the...

Advice for mfm threesome with my fwb and his friend

My FWB (friends with benefits) has been hinting for a while that he and his buddy are both down for a threesome with me. I’ve always kinda wanted to t...

Ex wants friends with benefits after breakup advice

So my ex dumped me like two months ago after three years together. She said she wanted “space” and we both agreed not to talk for a while. Suddenly, s...

Husband gets wasted, expects me to take care of him

I’m honestly at my limit with my husband’s drinking. Every damn weekend he gets smashed with his buddies, comes home acting like an idiot, pukes, fall...

Giving my best friend an ultimatum about boundaries

My best friend can’t seem to understand what boundaries are, and honestly, I’m over it. She walks into my house without asking, goes through my stuff,...

Thinking about dumping my boyfriend because of his gambling problem

Four years of my life wasted on a guy who'd rather bet his money away than actually build something real with me. I’m so sick of the lies, the begging...

Supporting a needy friend who hates our group

I’m just tired of babysitting this one girl in our friend group who flips out every time she feels left out or not “special” enough. She’s always bit...

Friend keeps disciplining my kid during playtime—how do i tell her to back off?

I’m losing my patience with a friend who thinks she’s the discipline police every time our kids play together. My son is five and yeah, he’s a little ...

Tips for better parenting and dealing with constant exhaustion

I’m honestly losing my mind here. My kids are wild (I have a 5-year-old and a 9-year-old) and I feel like I’m screwing up half the time. No matter how...

Parenting vs being your kid’s friend: where’s the damn line?

Honestly, I’m sick to death of all the “be your kid’s best friend” crap I keep seeing everywhere. I’ve got a 13-year-old daughter who thinks TikTok is...

How do you stay the boss as a parent but still be friends?

I’m so tired of all these “gentle parenting” types acting like you can just talk your kid out of being an asshole. I want my kids to like me, and I do...

How not to freak out during a threesome with a couple

First off, don’t pretend you’re some porn star if you’re not. Most people get nervous the first time they’re with a couple, especially if they’re both...

Confused after rough sex: am i just broken?

I had rough sex with my boyfriend last night and honestly, I can’t stop thinking about it. It was intense, not in a sweet way. He slapped me, choked m...

Seeking advice: starting as a hotwife, husband’s push

My husband is all over this hotwife thing, keeps pushing me to get out there and find someone to sleep with. He says it turns him on, but I’m honestly...

Husband angry I gave coworker a ride home, am I wrong?

So my husband totally lost his shit because I gave my coworker (male, for context) a ride home yesterday. The guy doesn’t have a car, his bus was supe...

Ex-friend wants to reconnect after a year, should i trust them?

So out of nowhere, my ex-friend messaged me after ghosting me for over a year. Last time we spoke, he ditched me at the bar to go home with some rando...

Need help after a cnc gone wrong with my wife

So, me and my wife tried CNC (consensual non-consent) for the first time last weekend. We talked about it, set up a safeword, all that. But when we a...

Leaving stuff at boyfriend's place – am i being clingy?

I left a couple of my things at my boyfriend’s apartment—just a toothbrush, a hoodie, and some face wash. Didn’t really think much of it, but I’ve see...

Boyfriend jerked off in my underwear as a prank

So I found out my boyfriend thought it would be "hilarious" to jerk off and finish in my underwear drawer, right on my panties, and then put them back...

In-laws can't respect boundaries with my baby

My in-laws think our 9-month-old is their property and it’s driving me nuts. Every time they visit, they just grab him, kiss him all over his face, an...

Dealing with a controlling mother-in-law at family gatherings

My husband’s mother is making me absolutely crazy. Every time we have family over—even for something as chill as a BBQ—she acts like she owns the damn...

How to handle overbearing in-laws and limit grandparent visits

My in-laws are seriously driving me insane. Ever since our kid was born, they act like they're entitled to drop by whenever they want and treat our ho...