How to handle mean kids at school

Ever feel like you're walking through a minefield just to get to class? Dealing with mean kids can be tough, but you’re not alone!

When I was in middle school, I faced my share of mean kids. They’d say things that made me feel small and unimportant. One day, I was just sitting alone at lunch when a group of kids decided to mock my lunch. It hurt, and I felt like I had no one to turn to.

What I learned over time is that it’s crucial to not take their words personally. Mean kids often act out because they’re going through their own stuff. I started to focus on the friends who lifted me up instead of the ones who tried to bring me down. Finding my little support group made a huge difference.

If you encounter mean kids, try to stay calm. Responding with anger often makes things worse. Instead, take a deep breath and walk away. Find a teacher or an adult you trust and talk to them. They can help you navigate the situation and ensure it doesn’t escalate.

Also, remember that you’re not defined by what they say. Celebrate your strengths and interests. Whether it’s being good at sports, drawing, or even just being a kind friend, focus on what makes you unique. Surround yourself with positive people who appreciate you for who you are.

In the end, it’s about building resilience. Each encounter with mean kids can teach you something valuable about yourself and how to stand tall in the face of negativity. Hang in there, and remember: you’ve got this!